MARVEL OCHIENG

Nowadays young ladies in campuses claim that they find it difficult to be in meaningful relationships with men their age, why is this?

University is perhaps the most exciting face in one’s life and place where many have their relationship. Most campus girls dislike dating men of similar age because most of them are immature and never have any focus for their lives and therefore they gravitate towards older men. Linda gives her reasons.

“I need to do my hair every week, have my nails done and have designer outfits. Men my age still depend on their parents and they can never afford to pay my bills and treat me out every weekend. They always complain of being broke and if they are to give you that money then you will have to repay immediately, unlike older men who you can just call and mention all you need and you receive the cash without them complaining.” Linda says she has always aspired to look like the ladies she sees in social media and so she will do whatever it takes for her to be like them. She wants a good life and a ‘school boy’ cannot afford to give her that. Most of her ex’s would ask for money from her instead of them giving her money. She also says older men are busy and so they don’t have time to follow someone around and be jealous. She needs to be flashy in campus.